Why do so many women think that every man has a magic switch that will completely change who he is the minute a ring is on his finger?
“He cheated on me several times, but once we’re married he’ll be faithful.”
“He’s lazy and unmotivated but after the wedding he’ll be hard-working.”
“He’s serious and boring but our marriage will be fun and adventurous.”
“He screams at me all the time but he won’t scream at me anymore when I’m his wife.”
There is no magic switch. Character is developed over time, not overnight during your vows. Your vows are not magic words. If he’s boring, he’ll be boring after the wedding. If he’s lazy, he’ll be lazy after the wedding. If he’s a jerk, he’ll be a jerk after the wedding.
Let me tell you, sis. You’d better like who he is before the wedding because that’s who he’s going to be for the long haul. If not, GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN.
